Judge of me

"Don't judge me!" This term is becoming more and more popular. I'm tired of hearing it. These days, I guess, friends and family can't disagree with out judging, or so it would seem.

I have to say that it is easy to disagree with people I don't know or care deeply about. So after working up the courage to disagree with a friend or family member and being accused of judging, I'm more hesitant to care for people I care about.
If you find your self using this phrase, please stop and think about if you really believe that I'm JUDGING you, or just disagreeing. There is a big difference.